Being a slut

It’s Saturday so why not push the limits here a little people. I want everybody to think of a time were you haven been called a slut and have called somebody else a slut …. And if you have never been called a slut then i want the life you’re living because this generation everybody seems to be some type of slut. I know personally i have called people sluts and i have been called a slut to before but I know I’m not a slut. So you’re probably wondering why I’m blogging about being a slut it’s because i can say i had a huge change of mind when it came to viewing somebody as a “slut”. I have thinking about this lately because in college you in a way start to see things in a bigger perspective and not in your usual high school mind, and one thing i started to view differently was girls. I know girls who love sex, i know girls who fear sex, and i know girls who care less about sex, Now the interesting thing is my mind went directly to sex when i thought about the word slut because i believed that’s what a slut is, somebody who has sex with a bunch of random guys and doesn’t respect themselves or their body but people there is a bigger picture to this word, a bigger meaning and people should start to learn it.

 

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STEP ONE: the definition of the word “slut”
noun
1.
Disparaging and Offensive. a sexually promiscuous woman, or a woman who behaves or dresses in an overtly sexual way.
this was dictionary.com definition of the word slut read it again and again until you see the problem with this definition, WOMEN ARE THE ONLY ONE WHO SEEM TO BE ABLE TO BE A SLUT! And if we want to judge off this definition we are all idiots. I know as many male sluts if not more then i know female sluts. So the overall definition is highly stupid.

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STEP TWO: Passing judgment on what somebody does with their body
Now this i am so guilty of, Kim Kardashian for a example i couldn’t stand her, literally i couldn’t make it through a episode of keeping up with the kardashians or care about what she was wearing. I called her every slut and hoe in the book because her fame came from a sex tape, then when i started to think about it why did i care so much about how she got fame, she wasn’t my mom, sister, daughter she doesn’t even know i exist why should i care about what the girls is doing with her body!

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STEP THREE: Minding our own damn business!!!
I did it, everybody does it but we all need to stop, if people are comfortable doing what they do and feel the need to do the things they do let them do it! it’s simple we see it, we turn our cheek, and we continue on with our life.mind ur buisness

However now of days you seem to be a “slut” for the dumbest things such as not wanting to talk to a guy, not wanting to give a guy your number, expressing your needs, every little thing seems to make you a slut.me af af.gifthis right here is me, this is how i get when people feel they have the right to call me a slut because they’re mad about something as simple as me being pretty, and if you’re the type of girl that feels the need to call another girl a slut simply because you’re jealous grow up mija. The word is stupid, the definition is stupid, this world is stupid. And I’m pretty tired of it, I know for 1 i am far from one and i know some of us were raised and taught about self respect and how to love yourself and others can’t so for the ones that can’t or don’t care what people think do you boo, just be safe. As for me my future kids won’t be out here expressing their desires or nothing because i was raised better then that and i have self respect but we are all different and all have different views, so live your life and just a FYI girls aren’t the only ones who can be a SLUT!!! And what people do with their body we may not agree with but there are better things to do then sit around and talk about what somebody else is doing, get up and get out and do something for yourself !

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One thought on “Being a slut

  1. well said (or typed in this case) dear one you will find that whatever is ‘easy’ aka. to name call not watch what one says because yes even what we type up on the net needs to be self screened meaning have self restraint that goes for what you are mentioning as well…

    self restraint isn’t a bad thing and honestly letting things roll off the back meteorically speaking saves so much heartache in the long run, and saves emotional energy for when it’s needed… 🙂

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